You probably have your own fair share of relationships you have been in which didn’t end well. There are some main things you need to keep in mind in order to prevent them and enjoy relationships with people who truly make you happy.
At the beginning, these things may be impossible to understand but when you accept them, you will make more space in your life for people who care about you and your feelings. Thus, below we list 5 main things to remember when you face problems in relationships.
- When you have to go through hard times, there will be people who will avoid you. There is a saying that when you have happy days, your friends learn who you truly are, but when you are sad or need help, you get to know who your true friends are. When everything goes easily in life, you are surrounded by a lot of people. However, when you suffer hard times, it becomes easier to distinguish which friends care about you the most as they won’t be those who will leave you and avoid any contact with you – true friends will offer you support and help.
- While you will have relationships which will make you happy, you will also have those which are meant to teach you valuable lessons. One way or another, you shouldn’t regret that you have started a relationship with such people. They either made you happy or wiser, and in both cases you have become stronger.
- There are a lot of fake people around you. It is quite easy to rely on a person who pretends to care about you although deep inside their main objective is to benefit themselves and not to help you. That’s why you should form your opinion based on not how people speak but on what they actually do.
- The less time you spend with toxic people, the better your life gets. You shouldn’t settle for something less than you are worth. The same goes with people – if they only want to go out with you but don’t treat you as a real friend, you shouldn’t even bother devoting your time to them. If they are not willing to be with you when you want but they expect you to rush to them whenever they call you, you should spend less time with such people.
- People can use dishonesty when speaking to you. That’s why it is so important to accompany words with actions. If someone says that he loves you but doesn’t show it to you, you shouldn’t believe them. On the other hand, even if they don’t utter this phrase but act affectionate with you, you can be sure that they care about you.